Why People with Special Needs Will Be the Best Friends You’ve Ever Had

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As you walk down the aisle at the grocery store or go from one class to another in school, you might see someone who doesn’t act quite like you or doesn’t look like you. People with special needs try to fit in with others as much as possible. They don’t always do the same things that you would or even talk like you do, but people with special needs can be the best friends you will ever have.

No Need to Fit In

People with special needs are enjoying living life. There might be a chance that they won’t make it to a certain age, or they might be rejoicing in making it as far as they have in life. There is no need to fit in with the crowd as they are happy being themselves. When you’re friends with someone with special needs, you don’t have to worry about impressing someone else as this group will be happy just to have someone to talk with and spend time with.

Out & About

When you’re having fun with someone who has special needs, it doesn’t take a lot of money to keep them happy. They would be just as excited about going to a park with you as they would going to an amusement park. Keep in mind that some people with special needs are on social security, so spending a lot of money might not be an option in the first place. However, if you want to make the person’s day, then offer to show that person a fun time with a spa day or a fun adventure, like going to the zoo, paying for the experience along the way.

Speaking of social security, there is something that you should know about it. Many special needs persons filed for it when they turned 18 or had it filed for them through their parents with the help of a lawyer, like those at Oxner + Permar, LLC. However, this does not mean that they are completely dependent on those around them. Let them express their independence, if they are able to, and do something that they might want to do. Perhaps they just want to go to the dog park or out for ice cream. Whatever it is, they’ll probably enjoy taking the lead and just spending time with you. It doesn’t have to be fancy.

So Much Love

If you’re having a bad day, then a friend with special needs will make it better. They naturally have a loving disposition and will hug almost anyone. They show the care that they have for someone without worrying about what other people think. Many people with special needs like drawing pictures or making cards for their friends.

You’ve heard of the 5 Love Languages, right? For many special needs, their love language is probably physical touch. This means that they love to hug and be hugged and sometimes such affection can be uncomfortable for a lot of people who are first meeting them. Just take it slow. Set boundaries if you need to, but know that showing affection in that way might be important to them.

You can start off with a gesture as simple as a high five or a secret handshake that you make up with them. Some people even like to do what is called a “hand hug”. This is when two hands touch like a high five but then their thumbs wrap around the other hand just like a hug. It may sound funny, but that’s okay—it might be entertaining to your special needs friend.

They Don’t Judge

Unlike other people you might be friends with, someone with special needs won’t be as quick to judge you and the decisions that you make. They are happy to have a friend. Special needs people will often stand up for their friends so that others don’t make fun of them or judge them too. They are truly the type of people who will accept you for who you are and you can just be completely real with them.

You don’t have to pretend to have it all together. You don’t have to hold to any status quo or social standard. You don’t have to be rich, an athlete, or popular. Many times, in fact, special needs people will treat you like a celebrity. It’s not that you deserve it in any way or form, but they truly love you for who you are and just being around you will brighten your day. Hopefully, just being around them will brighten your day as well!

Those who have special needs are just like everyone else. One difference is that they can look past the physical barriers that others have because they understand. They are loving and caring people who are happy with enjoying the daily events of life.

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Gavin is an internet marketer and co-owner of Vectorcentral.com. Gavin lives in Barry in south Wales with his wife, Didem and cats, Munchie and Pixie.

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